1. Be confident
This is very important. A lady cannot fall in love with a guy that’s not confident except she’s already liking you from a distance. However, if your goal is to make her love you, you need to be confident as you approach her. Haven’t you wonder how guys win the heart of some so-called unapproachable ladies? Their level of confidence played a very important role. When going for a lady, be confident that you’ll get her rather than acting like you are trying your luck. Who told you that you are not good enough for her? This is the first step needed to win any ladies heart.
2. Do not over compliment her
Going on to start your conversation with “you’re very beautiful” will do little or no good. She has probably heard that a thousand times from other guys. Going on to build your conversation based on her beauty will make you look like those ordinary guys trying to waste her time. If she’s indeed beautiful, why don’t you ignore that and compliment other things about her? Things like her dress, shoe, her voice etc. This might go a long way to get her emotionally attached to you. As she will wonder “why is this guy not praising my beauty as most people do?”
3. Get her contact or give her yours
Don’t make the mistake of leaving without knowing how you’ll contact her again. If you do so, you might probably not see her again. Even if you do, you might have to start afresh. So try and get personal details about her as you discuss. Details like what she likes; where she lives etc. Before ending the conversation, confidently ask for her number. It will be impossible for her to say no if you gave her a good first impression. For those that do play their cards well, you can give her yours and ask her to contact you. Believe me, she’ll contact you. This is the right step to going on to win her heart.
4. Don’t be desperate
In a situation where you collect her number, don’t make the mistake of calling her that day. She remembers all the people she gave her contact to that day. Calling her the same day makes you look desperate and cheap. Rather, wait for a day or two and give her a call. Never make the mistake of assuming that she’ll forget you. If you followed the previous steps properly, she won’t forget you in a hurry. She’ll probably be wondering “why didn’t he contact me immediately like other guys do” making her more attached to you.
5. Fix a date
This is the last step and a very important one at that.
After getting to know each other better and talking now and then, you must fix a date for you guys to meet. Don’t make the mistake of giving her the option of fixing a date. This happens when you as questions like “when will you be free for a date?” Rather you’ll be like “Dolly, let’s meet at Frankie’s restaurant at 4 pm on Saturday.” After this, wait for her response. If she gives an excuse, then you’ll tell her that it’s alright if she’s not interested in you. If she truly cares about you, she can explain things to you and fix another date. She’ll say things like “I’ll be busy on Saturday evening, why don’t you make it Sunday evening. Once she says that; she’s 95% yours already.
